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		<title>By: steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 10:27:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm

Interesting thoughts which I believe could be expanded upon.

Humans will not see the traps we have created for ourselves and unfortunately most don&#039;t have the clarity to see reality.

Take money for example, we seek money because of what it means for us; a new house, bigger car, more holidays, better education and so on.

To make money we are taught we have to work to make things. When we have made something we are taught to sell to people. When we sell to people we are taught how to market. Marketing to people teaches us to craft sales copy which reaches deep into people&#039;s psyche. We want and may be desperately need some of their dollars in our pockets.

The world is so focused on the money God that we fail to see the reality of our creation.

In the UK which is where I live our financial services industry now makes up around 20% of our GDP. But when you actually start to prize it apart you realise that they don&#039;t make anything at all. All they do is manipulate the debt which is what our money system is based on. They do in fact make money from money.

At some point we will start to see a new and more truthful reality in which money or the means to exchange will serve humanity and not the other way round.

Our schools will help children to be more creative which is completely opposite to where we are currently. Currently our schools are geared to an industrial age which has long passed us.

Humans greatest resource and asset is our minds with all it&#039;s creativity. Why would I never wish to cherish it and have it working for me all my life?

Regards

Steve</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm</p>
<p>Interesting thoughts which I believe could be expanded upon.</p>
<p>Humans will not see the traps we have created for ourselves and unfortunately most don&#8217;t have the clarity to see reality.</p>
<p>Take money for example, we seek money because of what it means for us; a new house, bigger car, more holidays, better education and so on.</p>
<p>To make money we are taught we have to work to make things. When we have made something we are taught to sell to people. When we sell to people we are taught how to market. Marketing to people teaches us to craft sales copy which reaches deep into people&#8217;s psyche. We want and may be desperately need some of their dollars in our pockets.</p>
<p>The world is so focused on the money God that we fail to see the reality of our creation.</p>
<p>In the UK which is where I live our financial services industry now makes up around 20% of our GDP. But when you actually start to prize it apart you realise that they don&#8217;t make anything at all. All they do is manipulate the debt which is what our money system is based on. They do in fact make money from money.</p>
<p>At some point we will start to see a new and more truthful reality in which money or the means to exchange will serve humanity and not the other way round.</p>
<p>Our schools will help children to be more creative which is completely opposite to where we are currently. Currently our schools are geared to an industrial age which has long passed us.</p>
<p>Humans greatest resource and asset is our minds with all it&#8217;s creativity. Why would I never wish to cherish it and have it working for me all my life?</p>
<p>Regards</p>
<p>Steve</p>
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		<title>By: Leo Verkoelen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leo Verkoelen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 08:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dr. Glen,
Good article. Too many people look for the day that they don\&#039;t have to work anymore. But rapidly discover that a) the pension is not sufficient, b) nobody is asking for their opinion and help, c) black hole.
I don\&#039;t know how we can prepare people (early) for a \&quot;second life\&quot;. I tried it in different ways but not much response.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dr. Glen,<br />
Good article. Too many people look for the day that they don\&#8217;t have to work anymore. But rapidly discover that a) the pension is not sufficient, b) nobody is asking for their opinion and help, c) black hole.<br />
I don\&#8217;t know how we can prepare people (early) for a \&quot;second life\&quot;. I tried it in different ways but not much response.</p>
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		<title>By: steven</title>
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		<dc:creator>steven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2011 13:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BINGO!

I was forced out of the RACE a few years back, with some regulatory issues (that I am still fighting and expect to WIN) and was doing some CFO consulting work...but it was not fun and seemed like two steps forward 2 step side ways and sometimes a couple of steps back....

Changed the desired outcome
Dealt with the dislikes (ok still dealing with them) and
Am going back to what I like to do:

Make money by growing my business (wisely) by helping my clients grow their business - profitably and in an affordable fashion.

Do it on a % of revenue growth...so everyone wins...and it is fun...and it is profitable.

Vacation...sure, like to travel (if the food is right and the company is good), but why not HELP a client there as well....work?

Work is what my assistants do.....and they do it well....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BINGO!</p>
<p>I was forced out of the RACE a few years back, with some regulatory issues (that I am still fighting and expect to WIN) and was doing some CFO consulting work&#8230;but it was not fun and seemed like two steps forward 2 step side ways and sometimes a couple of steps back&#8230;.</p>
<p>Changed the desired outcome<br />
Dealt with the dislikes (ok still dealing with them) and<br />
Am going back to what I like to do:</p>
<p>Make money by growing my business (wisely) by helping my clients grow their business &#8211; profitably and in an affordable fashion.</p>
<p>Do it on a % of revenue growth&#8230;so everyone wins&#8230;and it is fun&#8230;and it is profitable.</p>
<p>Vacation&#8230;sure, like to travel (if the food is right and the company is good), but why not HELP a client there as well&#8230;.work?</p>
<p>Work is what my assistants do&#8230;..and they do it well&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Ron Brantley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ron Brantley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2011 15:35:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dr. G,

Great post!!!

I love this saying....\&quot;If you love what you do, you never work a day in your life\&quot; I know we have our humanistic frustrations and obstacles to over come, but in the end if your seriously passionate about something, the positive far outweighs the negative, and the neg. is very manageable.

Like working in the garden (if you do) its \&quot;Fun\&quot; work.

Ron</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. G,</p>
<p>Great post!!!</p>
<p>I love this saying&#8230;.\&quot;If you love what you do, you never work a day in your life\&quot; I know we have our humanistic frustrations and obstacles to over come, but in the end if your seriously passionate about something, the positive far outweighs the negative, and the neg. is very manageable.</p>
<p>Like working in the garden (if you do) its \&quot;Fun\&quot; work.</p>
<p>Ron</p>
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		<title>By: Gogo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gogo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 21:27:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is just an unbelievably important lesson.

I think it also has a corollary in the statement (which I believe) that successful people are \&quot;focused, not necessarily balanced\&quot;. Being passionate about the work you do such that \&quot;work is play\&quot; easily leads one to \&quot;focus on work\&quot; and \&quot;focused work\&quot;.

Not to say that people shouldn\&#039;t \&quot;have a life\&quot;, but I think work is definitely a bigger part of having a life than most people seem willing to admit.

That\&#039;s why I particularly like the examples from the natural world. We can plainly see from the animals just how much life and work are tied.

Gogo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is just an unbelievably important lesson.</p>
<p>I think it also has a corollary in the statement (which I believe) that successful people are \&quot;focused, not necessarily balanced\&quot;. Being passionate about the work you do such that \&quot;work is play\&quot; easily leads one to \&quot;focus on work\&quot; and \&quot;focused work\&quot;.</p>
<p>Not to say that people shouldn\&#8217;t \&quot;have a life\&quot;, but I think work is definitely a bigger part of having a life than most people seem willing to admit.</p>
<p>That\&#8217;s why I particularly like the examples from the natural world. We can plainly see from the animals just how much life and work are tied.</p>
<p>Gogo</p>
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		<title>By: Gys van Nieuwenhuizen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gys van Nieuwenhuizen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 03:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dr. Glen

I completely agree with you. Here is why I do.

I have been called a &quot;workaholic&quot;, &quot;obsessed&quot;, &quot;nerd&quot; and all sorts of weird things. My &quot;work&quot; is an expression of becoming completely immersed in what I am passionate about. It is so much fun that I cannot get enough of it, so it has nothing to do with being a &quot;workaholic&quot; or being &quot;obsessed&quot;. I have never worked, I play every day the whole day for a long time every day because I am passionate about what I do. I have a perhaps simplistic view that if someone believes that they are working at a hectic pace and rewarded with stress then they are perhaps doing what they are not passionate about. 

Forcing yourself to forget what you are passionate about is justified when you believe that you have to do what you don&#039;t like to do because you have to pay the bills and care for your family etc. But if anyone can afford to play all day, then whey don&#039;t they? Well, I can only tell you what I think it might be, and being a psychologist you will know whether there is some truth in what I believe.

Just like money, marketing can be applied for good or for greed. Marketing applied for greed have conditioned us to believe that you need to make money, and once you have money then you can buy what you need which will then make you happy. It would be difficult or impossible to get you to spend your money on things you don&#039;t need if the message was different. The sequence of events of this belief system is: make money first -&gt; can afford to buy what you need -&gt; will then be able to satisfy your emotional need. In short money -&gt; instantly satisfies emotional need. Money is the motivation regardless of what you do.

Now imagine what happens when you do the exact opposite and reverse the order of events like this. Do what you love and you will be happy and fulfilled, even if you don&#039;t have any money -&gt; being passionate about what you are doing, you end up doing what you do better than anybody else, because they are mostly doing something they don&#039;t like to do so they can never be as committed as you are -&gt; money then comes to you as a result of what you are doing. So the inverse of most advertising conditioning is: Satisfy your emotional need first -&gt; make money as a result. Passion is the motivation for what you do and money is just a consequence. 

If you want to play all day, then conceive how to monetise your passion, put the outcome in your mind, believe it has already happened, and then live your passion. The money then comes by itself, and it really does. I can understand why that may perhaps sound unbelievable. 

According to modern aeronautical principles and aerodynamics it is clearly proven that it is impossible for a bumble bee to fly, but fortunately the bumble bee does not know that so it goes ahead and flies anyway. Science clearly proved that it was impossibly to fly, but the Wright brothers were passionate, intensely committed and went ahead to fly anyway, despite the fact that everybody else believed it was impossible. They achieved what was &quot;impossible&quot; because they put it in their minds, and completely believed and visualised that they were flying before they actually did.

I have been living like the bumble bee for more than 40 years, so I can say that money does come as a result of what you do, and you can do anything that you want to do if you put your mind to it and believe that it has already happened. I can also say that money almost always eludes you when it is money itself that you are passionate about. 

Did Bill Gates make money as a result of being passionate about software for microcomputers, or did he first make money doing what he did not want to do, so that he could afford to buy IBM to become the largest IT company in the world. Is Honda the largest motorcycle and internal combustion engine manufacturer in the world since 1963 as a result of Soichiro Honda living his passion, or did he make lots of money doing something he did not enjoy so that he would have enough money some day be able to buy Toyota. They both lived their passion. They both played all day. They were both driven by their passion and their money came as a result of what they did. 

Play is when you are happy, living your passion, and having fun meaning that you never work, because work is when you are doing what you don&#039;t like to do while forcing yourself to continue believing that making money will someday allow you to buy what will make you happy.  

How anyone chooses to make their money is entirely their choice, and you can make money either way. But I think that if you do make make lots of money for the sake of money alone then the tendency is greed, and if it is as a result of being motivated by passion then the tendency is to share. 

So I just want to thank you for being motivated by passion, which is why I believe you are giving by teaching me and countless other people to share in the fruits of what you know. I have recently started an Internet business, and applying what you teach is far more valuable than you may realise, as that is what enables me to continue living my passion and those fruits are shared as well. 
 
Gys</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dr. Glen</p>
<p>I completely agree with you. Here is why I do.</p>
<p>I have been called a &#8220;workaholic&#8221;, &#8220;obsessed&#8221;, &#8220;nerd&#8221; and all sorts of weird things. My &#8220;work&#8221; is an expression of becoming completely immersed in what I am passionate about. It is so much fun that I cannot get enough of it, so it has nothing to do with being a &#8220;workaholic&#8221; or being &#8220;obsessed&#8221;. I have never worked, I play every day the whole day for a long time every day because I am passionate about what I do. I have a perhaps simplistic view that if someone believes that they are working at a hectic pace and rewarded with stress then they are perhaps doing what they are not passionate about. </p>
<p>Forcing yourself to forget what you are passionate about is justified when you believe that you have to do what you don&#8217;t like to do because you have to pay the bills and care for your family etc. But if anyone can afford to play all day, then whey don&#8217;t they? Well, I can only tell you what I think it might be, and being a psychologist you will know whether there is some truth in what I believe.</p>
<p>Just like money, marketing can be applied for good or for greed. Marketing applied for greed have conditioned us to believe that you need to make money, and once you have money then you can buy what you need which will then make you happy. It would be difficult or impossible to get you to spend your money on things you don&#8217;t need if the message was different. The sequence of events of this belief system is: make money first -&gt; can afford to buy what you need -&gt; will then be able to satisfy your emotional need. In short money -&gt; instantly satisfies emotional need. Money is the motivation regardless of what you do.</p>
<p>Now imagine what happens when you do the exact opposite and reverse the order of events like this. Do what you love and you will be happy and fulfilled, even if you don&#8217;t have any money -&gt; being passionate about what you are doing, you end up doing what you do better than anybody else, because they are mostly doing something they don&#8217;t like to do so they can never be as committed as you are -&gt; money then comes to you as a result of what you are doing. So the inverse of most advertising conditioning is: Satisfy your emotional need first -&gt; make money as a result. Passion is the motivation for what you do and money is just a consequence. </p>
<p>If you want to play all day, then conceive how to monetise your passion, put the outcome in your mind, believe it has already happened, and then live your passion. The money then comes by itself, and it really does. I can understand why that may perhaps sound unbelievable. </p>
<p>According to modern aeronautical principles and aerodynamics it is clearly proven that it is impossible for a bumble bee to fly, but fortunately the bumble bee does not know that so it goes ahead and flies anyway. Science clearly proved that it was impossibly to fly, but the Wright brothers were passionate, intensely committed and went ahead to fly anyway, despite the fact that everybody else believed it was impossible. They achieved what was &#8220;impossible&#8221; because they put it in their minds, and completely believed and visualised that they were flying before they actually did.</p>
<p>I have been living like the bumble bee for more than 40 years, so I can say that money does come as a result of what you do, and you can do anything that you want to do if you put your mind to it and believe that it has already happened. I can also say that money almost always eludes you when it is money itself that you are passionate about. </p>
<p>Did Bill Gates make money as a result of being passionate about software for microcomputers, or did he first make money doing what he did not want to do, so that he could afford to buy IBM to become the largest IT company in the world. Is Honda the largest motorcycle and internal combustion engine manufacturer in the world since 1963 as a result of Soichiro Honda living his passion, or did he make lots of money doing something he did not enjoy so that he would have enough money some day be able to buy Toyota. They both lived their passion. They both played all day. They were both driven by their passion and their money came as a result of what they did. </p>
<p>Play is when you are happy, living your passion, and having fun meaning that you never work, because work is when you are doing what you don&#8217;t like to do while forcing yourself to continue believing that making money will someday allow you to buy what will make you happy.  </p>
<p>How anyone chooses to make their money is entirely their choice, and you can make money either way. But I think that if you do make make lots of money for the sake of money alone then the tendency is greed, and if it is as a result of being motivated by passion then the tendency is to share. </p>
<p>So I just want to thank you for being motivated by passion, which is why I believe you are giving by teaching me and countless other people to share in the fruits of what you know. I have recently started an Internet business, and applying what you teach is far more valuable than you may realise, as that is what enables me to continue living my passion and those fruits are shared as well. </p>
<p>Gys</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 01:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ryan ... I poured love into each and every one of those 17 markets.  I studied them very carefully for several months, talked to consumers, found out what there problems were until I genuinely empathized with them.  You may have heard me say before I don&#039;t want to go into a market until I feel changed as a person by my research and involvement.  That&#039;s what I mean.  (It was a BIG mistake, however, to enter 17 markets because you can&#039;t sustain that love in any meaningful way ... but the nature of information marketing captures the emotion you put into the information FOREVER, so I continue to be rewarded by my previous effort)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ryan &#8230; I poured love into each and every one of those 17 markets.  I studied them very carefully for several months, talked to consumers, found out what there problems were until I genuinely empathized with them.  You may have heard me say before I don&#8217;t want to go into a market until I feel changed as a person by my research and involvement.  That&#8217;s what I mean.  (It was a BIG mistake, however, to enter 17 markets because you can&#8217;t sustain that love in any meaningful way &#8230; but the nature of information marketing captures the emotion you put into the information FOREVER, so I continue to be rewarded by my previous effort)</p>
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		<title>By: Luke Brown</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luke Brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 23:14:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It\&#039;s so good that somebody has the courage to tell it like it is without all the pap and tripe which comes from those who haven\&#039;t succeeded. The vast majority of successful and wealthy individuals have said this for generations. Who disagrees? That\&#039;s right - those who don\&#039;t believe, therefore they\&#039;ll never be a success. Just because they can\&#039;t do it doesn\&#039;t mean others can\&#039;t.

It\&#039;s posts like this which make your blog so enjoyable. No matter how uncomfortable some may get, just keep telling it like it is, Dr. Livingston!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It\&#8217;s so good that somebody has the courage to tell it like it is without all the pap and tripe which comes from those who haven\&#8217;t succeeded. The vast majority of successful and wealthy individuals have said this for generations. Who disagrees? That\&#8217;s right &#8211; those who don\&#8217;t believe, therefore they\&#8217;ll never be a success. Just because they can\&#8217;t do it doesn\&#8217;t mean others can\&#8217;t.</p>
<p>It\&#8217;s posts like this which make your blog so enjoyable. No matter how uncomfortable some may get, just keep telling it like it is, Dr. Livingston!</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:12:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don\&#039;t really agree for one reason. 

You did well in all of your previous 17 market without any or much love. After that your partner penetrate markets using employees who most likely don\&#039;t love the market.

And yet you\&#039;re earning 6 figures per month from the above two ventures. How can this be if love is the ultimate value?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don\&#8217;t really agree for one reason. </p>
<p>You did well in all of your previous 17 market without any or much love. After that your partner penetrate markets using employees who most likely don\&#8217;t love the market.</p>
<p>And yet you\&#8217;re earning 6 figures per month from the above two ventures. How can this be if love is the ultimate value?</p>
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		<title>By: Phil Cullum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil Cullum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 17:36:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Find your joy in work that lets you learn something new everyday, earn your daily bread without stress, meet new and interesting people and help your clients. It&#039;s hard to not rejoice in work like that.
Phil Cullum
Host, Your Social Marketing Workshop</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Find your joy in work that lets you learn something new everyday, earn your daily bread without stress, meet new and interesting people and help your clients. It&#8217;s hard to not rejoice in work like that.<br />
Phil Cullum<br />
Host, Your Social Marketing Workshop</p>
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